When I started on this path to becoming a physician I was constantly told the same few things - you’ll never be happy, you won’t have time for a family, you won’t have time for yourself, and on and on. I’m sure you ladies have heard it as well - whether pursuing law or business or any “high powered” position - at the end of the day it’s supposed to boil down to us having to choose between career or family. We can’t have them both.
But I’m here to tell you that you can have both. You can have so much more.
You can have your cake and eat it too.
If any of you know me from my blog or social media, you know that I whole heartedly believe this and live it everyday.
And with this course I’m going to share every single skill you need to not only reach your professional aspirations, but I’ll also teach essential skills for self care, healthy relationships, maintaining friendships, having children, and balancing it all. Balancing it all and being happy.
Don’t listen to the naysayers who tell you it’s impossible.
It can be done, and with this course I’ll show you how.
This course is for you if:
You wonder if you’re good enough to have all that it is you want (you are).
You are struggling to manage your time now and don’t think you could ever manage having kids or other responsibilities on top of it (you can).
You’ve been told you shouldn’t pursue your dreams (you should).
You forget to take care of yourself and feel burnt out (we all do it).
You have big dreams but have no idea how to make them a reality and feel paralyzed by fear of failure (I’ll show you how).
This course targets women in general who want it all, whether you're 18 or 38, you’ll learn skills to successfully manage it all, and skills for finding happiness even when you can’t.
This course is designed to be completed in one month, beginning on May 1st and ending the 31st. Each day there will be a new 10 minute lecture on the topics outlined below, as well as assignments with printable worksheets!
Here’s a quick synopsis of each module:
1. Me, myself, and I
This section focuses on what we usually forget to make number one - ourselves! Here I’ll delve into helping you figure out what makes you happy, where your passions lie, what you want out of life, and help you develop better habits for self-care, dealing with stress, rewarding yourself, and more!
2. Working girl
This section is all about work - because let’s face it, we’re all busy, but there’s a difference between being busy and getting work done! Whether you are a college student, employee, or mother getting ready to head back into the working world, this section will help you develop new strategies for learning new things (i.e. study tips), time management, finding motivation when you’re in the trenches, and dealing with failure.
3. Your circle
This section is devoted to finding your circle and keeping it. Women sometimes have a hard time finding and nurturing true friendships, but there are few things more therapeutic than a long talk with a girlfriend. This section will help you figure out who you need in your circle, how to find them, and most importantly how to keep them.
4. Mr. Right
This section is all about finding the right partner (and that can totally be a Mrs. too)! If you choose to share this path with anyone, figuring out yourself and what you want is only half of it - figuring out how to make that work with another person and their goals is the other half. This section will help you with what to look for in a partner, how to build love and continue building it, tips for communication and conflict resolution, and more!
5. Bring the kids along
This section is about - you guessed it - kids. And even if you’re in high school reading this and have no idea if or when you want kids, this section is critical to figuring out what we want and not closing any doors prematurely. In this section we’ll explore why you might want to have kids, when the right time is, working outside of the home with kids, dealing with mom guilt, and those damn mommy wars.
6. Put it all together and what do you get?
Chaos. This section is the key to it all, the sum of all of the pieces, but we couldn’t have gotten here without addressing everything else first. But now comes the question, once I’ve got it all (or while I’m trying to get it all), the career, the friends, the partner, the kids, how the hell do I keep it all up? How do I balance? This section isn’t just about doing it all, more importantly it’s about doing it all and choosing to be happy.
There will also be a bonus module with tons of extras - gorgeous printable motivational quotes, a behind the scenes look at a day in the life, busy girl beauty hacks, and more!
Included in the course will also be access to a private Facebook group for support where you can share your dreams and fears, because nothing helps more than knowing you’re not alone. And trust me when I say you are NOT alone! I’ll regularly be checking the page to add in my two cents!
The course is currently closed for enrollment but will be reopening soon
Laura graduated Harvard Medical School and currently works as a physician in the Boston area. She lives with her husband (and Harvard Med classmate) who also works as a physician and her two daughters. She began blogging while in medical school and her blog A Little Bit of Lacquer now reaches over 75,000 readers around the world who inspired her to create this course.